a queer chaplain
✨ Holding space. Sharing stories. Sparkling the sacred. ✨
Hosted by Bonnie Violet Quintana — a trans femme genderqueer spiritual drag artist and digital chaplain — A Queer Chaplain podcast is where healing meets glitter, spirituality meets skepticism, and the sacred is reclaimed, one story at a time.
This podcast is a soft landing for the tender, the curious, the ex-religious, the spiritual-ish, the seekers, the creators, the joyful, the recovering, and the beautifully complicated. Each episode weaves together interviews, reflections, and spiritual drag — pulling threads from across Bonnie Violet’s work as a community organizer, podcaster, and chaplain.
Whether we’re talking about gender blessings, queer grief, trans joy, drag as ministry, or the awkward holiness of just being human — this is a space for honest conversation, healing possibilities, and connection that doesn’t require belief — just curiosity.
Expect episodes that dip into:
- ✨ Stories from LGBTQ2SIA+ folks healing from and reimagining spiritual life
- 🎭 Sacred drag performances and reflections
- 🧘♀️ Queer recovery, rituals, and rites of passage
- 🎤 Highlights from Bonnie’s many projects like Trans Joy Boise, Drag & Spirituality, Cut & Uncut, and more
- 💒 Spiritual services — from weddings to memorials to drag blessings — and the radical ways we honor each other
This is your digital sanctuary — with rhinestones
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“She’s not here to fix or convert — just to accompany, witness, and help people feel more connected and more themselves.”
🎧 Tune in wherever you get your podcasts.
👀 Watch on YouTube at @aqueerchaplain on all socials.
💌 Join the sparkle at aqueerchaplain.org
a queer chaplain
As the Deer Panteth - Desire of Your Heart - A Transgender Story
I was invited to offer a reflection, this is what happened.
🦋🙏🏻🕯 May we open our mind to build new strength,
receive knowledge in our hearts
and wisdom in our body -
Help me to set aside my anxieties and allow me to be a channel
Allow me to speak what you would have me speak for the greater good
📜 Psalms 42 1-3 ESV
1 tAs a deer pants for flowing streams, so pants my soul for you, O God.
2 My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When shall I come and appear before God?
3 My tears have been my food day and night, while they say to me all the day long, “Where is your God?"
As mentioned - Desire of Your Heart by Flamy Grant
https://youtu.be/Abp87M9Q0FM?si=zRvg-_6JJgh6sEwY
Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco
"We are a House of Prayer for All People and a Home for Queer Spirituality. We see a transformed world."
https://mccsf.org
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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank
Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.
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